So if I understand you correctly, you are looking for the best way to ask your boyfriend for money politely; i.e., without sounding demanding, right? I know what you are trying to do right there.
The truth is that most guys derive joy seeing their girlfriends ask them for money. Just in case you don’t know most guys feel frustrated when their girlfriends don’t ask them for money. One of the ways they eliminate this frustration is by trying to spend time with you – which make them end up spending on you – though indirectly.
If this is the case, why do many guys ‘act’ like they hate spending on girls? Or rather, why do they become pissed when a girl raises the issue of money?
The reason is simple; there is a thin line between asking for money and becoming a demanding girlfriend. Once you pass that line to the other side of constant demands, it becomes a considerable issue making your boyfriend give you money.
If that is your situation, I will show you in this post the ways to ask your boyfriend for money that will make him give you. Unlike the other article where I explained how to make a guy spend on you carelessly without thinking twice, this one would take a different turn.
When you make a guy spend on you, it doesn’t mean he loves you; but when he gives you money, know he has something special for you.
So to answer how to ask your boyfriend for money politely and get the money, here are the steps.
Never Demand Straight Forward
This is one trick you must learn if you want to always get money from your boyfriend. Guys hate demanding girlfriends, so you must allow them to figure out that you need money themselves.
Even though there are psychological ways to make someone give you money, you shouldn’t always ask for cash verbally.
After this step, you will see the best non-verbal ways to ask your boyfriend for money politely. Every time you demand cash, you deposit from withdrawing from his emotional bank. At some point, you’d run out of deposits – which means ‘Game Over’
Drop Money Wishes To His Hearing
Dropping money wishes is another psychological trick. Money wishes mean saying things you would love to do assuming you had money.
Take for example when both of you are together, you could say something like;
“I wish I had money just to change my hair and look good for you.”
Then you pause and wait for a reaction. If he ends up not reacting, that doesn’t mean he didn’t hear the statement; you have sown a seed that would end up germinating. Just at the right time, you will reap the reward of that statement you made.
Furthermore, you could advance a step further by dropping pictures of beautiful hair made by other girls with an inscription;
“Which of these do you think would fit me?”
If he still doesn’t respond, then you switch over your tactics. All these are specific ways to ask your boyfriend for money politely. A polite way of asking for money is definitely from a non-threatening position. And that is what these methods will highlight for you.
Drop Money Excuses
At this point, everything that is happening to you should be as a result of not having money. If your boyfriend says;
“Hey, why haven’t you called me since?”
Your response should be;
“I am kinda depressed because I am broke and don’t even have money to do my hair.”
The idea of a hairdo you’ve sown in him before would germinate at this point. He will recall you once complained about making your hair; then he will bring out the money for you.
These type of excuses are non-verbal ways to your boyfriend for money politely without being demanding. He would want to make you happy.
You must be conscious of the sequence – once there is a misstep, it comes off as manipulation. Once your boyfriend discovers he is being manipulated, that is a game over for you. I suggest you be mindful of your sequence; know where you are and where you are headed.
A combination of all these transforms a rich dude into a money bag for you to exploit. But you have to be careful not to get spoilt.
Use ‘Give Me A Loan Format’
Begging him to loan you money is another way to kill two birds with a stone. It allows you to demand money without being seen as a gold digger.
Your aim isn’t to get the loan – rather, a manipulative way to get a lower amount without payback. So let’s assume I need 200 dollars; to get this amount, I might decide to request a loan of 600 dollars or even a thousand dollars.
Under normal circumstances, he wouldn’t want to risk giving you such a massive amount as a loan (in case of a break-up). So in most cases, your boyfriend would decide to provide you with a lesser amount without an option to pay back. Amazing – isn’t it?
So if you are looking for how to ask your boyfriend for money politely, then this trick should also work.